Spamhaus

How can I protect myself against blacklists like spamhaus, they are invading my server and making nebulous shots, how do I solve it?

I'm not sure I'm understanding your question. SpamHaus is one of the "good guys" and I use their zen.spamhaus.org RBL on all my mail servers. They now require you have an account and generate a server-specific key, but you shouldn't have any trouble with their traffic usage levels for personal/small scale use. Are you running into a misconfiguration or are you getting bounce messages about your server being an open resolver?